🔔💍 Wedding bells are ringing, but so are the alarm bells! 🚨 Our soon-to-be-wed couple finds themselves in a tricky situation that's causing some serious drama. 😱 The groom, a humble guy from a not-so-wealthy background, is set to marry his lovely bride, who hails from the other side of the world. 🌍 With two weddings planned, one in Europe and another in the bride's homeland, the couple is faced with a dilemma that's threatening to put a damper on their happily ever after. 😢 Buckle up, folks, because this story is about to get wild! 🎢🍿
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🌍 A Tale of Two Weddings: Europe vs. The Other Side of the World! 💒
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👰🏻 Bride's Wish: Inviting Friends & Family from Afar! 🛫
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💸 Groom's Humble Beginnings & Family's Financial Situation 🏚️
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💍 Second Wedding Plans: Tying the Knot Twice! 🎉
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💰 Cultural Expectations: Who Foots the Bill? 🤔
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🏠 Saving for the Future: House Deposit Dilemma 🔑
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💵 Bride's Wealthy Friends & Family: Easily Affordable! 🤑
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👫 Couple's United Front: No to Paying! 🙅♀️🙅♂️
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🤷♂️ AITA for Prioritizing Our Future Over Flights & Accommodation? 🏡
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😤 The Entitled Guests: Determined to Come, Expecting to be Paid For! 😠
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🙏 Grateful Groom: Thanking Reddit for Advice & Support! ❤️
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💸 Rich Friends Expect Free Ride to Wedding! 😱 Couple Stands Their Ground! 💪
Well, well, well... looks like our lovebirds are in a bit of a pickle! 🥒 The bride's wealthy friends and family are expecting the couple to foot the bill for their flights and accommodation, all because it's apparently part of their culture. 🙄 But our dynamic duo isn't having any of it! 🙅♀️🙅♂️ They've been saving up for their dream home, and they're not about to blow it all on people who can easily afford to pay their own way. 💸 The couple is united in their decision, but the entitled guests are determined to come and expect to be paid for! 😤 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! 🍿👀
Honest conversation about finances with fiancé, NTA 👍💰
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Weddings are expensive, guests shouldn't have to pay for travel 🙏
Blimpkins | Blimpkins
Culture context needed to judge validity 🤔
cinnamngrl | cinnamngrl
Wedding guests should pay their own travel expenses. 🌍
Josie_F | Josie_F
Skipping a wedding over $1k? NTA, money talks 💰
Dayan54 | Dayan54
Don't sacrifice your savings to please stingy friends. 👍
Avebury1 | Avebury1
NTA stands up to entitled friends demanding money for wedding travel
mikan_sakura145 | mikan_sakura145
Guests should pay for their own travel expenses, NTA 👍
Bearx2020 | Bearx2020
Cultural expectations can be tricky, but could pay off 💰
TouchMyRustySpoon | TouchMyRustySpoon
Culture dictates paying for own travel. NTA. Rich friends- pay up! 💰
Headup31 | Headup31
Wedding guests should pay for themselves. Invest in property instead 💰
Ok_Size_8987 | Ok_Size_8987
Weddings, weddings, and more weddings! Who's paying for what?
flowers4u | flowers4u
Easy solution: politely decline and shame them into attending SE Asian wedding 😊
c19isdeadly | c19isdeadly
Solving wedding travel costs with hongbao minimum of 1k 💰
leoniey | leoniey
Weddings bring out the worst in people. Hang in there! 🙏
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Setting clear boundaries for wedding travel expenses. NTA 👍
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Polite decline to entitled friends. Set boundaries and expectations.
thatonepersoniam | thatonepersoniam
Savage response to entitled friends demanding wedding travel payment 💸
PensiveGamez | PensiveGamez
Wedding guests demand expensive travel accommodations, commenter says NTA 👰💰
TheBrassDancer | TheBrassDancer
Suggests 'optional' invites and Zoom call recording; waive presents offer 🎁
ViolaVetch75 | ViolaVetch75
Wedding guests can't always afford expensive destination weddings. #NTA
helendestroy | helendestroy
Savvy solution to RICH friends' wedding travel demands 💪
Hasagreatkid | Hasagreatkid
Weddings can bring more stress than joy 😒
toadally-grody | toadally-grody
Wedding expenses etiquette explained: NTA for not paying travel.
naranghim | naranghim
Politely declining is a better tradition than peer pressure. 🙅♀️
justwanttocheckshit | justwanttocheckshit
Sensible comment: Prioritizing long-term investment over lavish wedding expenses.
A_Brit_Abroad | A_Brit_Abroad
Friends demand couple pay for wedding travel and shopping, NTA
rahruh | rahruh
Culture shouldn't justify outdated expectations. Offer to trade expenses. 💰
Ajade77 | Ajade77
Wedding is for a day, finances are forever. NTA 👏
Comfortable-Ad-3614 | Comfortable-Ad-3614
Friends demand payment for wedding travel? Just say no 🙅♀️
DeepFriedPokemon | DeepFriedPokemon
Bride's family expected to foot the bill, NTA stands ground 👏
uniqueme1 | uniqueme1
Let them pay their own way! NTA bride stands her ground 💪
FistfullOfPizza | FistfullOfPizza
Suggesting courthouse wedding to avoid travel expenses. 🏛️
businessDept | businessDept
True friends are always willing to go the extra mile ❤️
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User stands up for couple against entitled friends. 👏
BitterFuture | BitterFuture
Stand your ground and keep your guest list smaller 👍
ms_zori | ms_zori
Skipping friends' wedding travel expenses is NTA tradition.
dart1126 | dart1126
Cultural differences aside, NTA stands their ground 💪
almightypariah_16 | almightypariah_16
Be a gracious host, offer options and understanding. #NTA 🙌
Why-not-this-one | Why-not-this-one
Politely decline and suggest alternative plans. NTA wins 👍
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Multiple wedding ceremonies due to family living in different regions.
glindathewoodglitch | glindathewoodglitch
Cultural expectations = money grab? 🤔
hamillhair | hamillhair
NTA stands their ground against entitled friends. Zoom wedding anyone? 😂
scandic2020 | scandic2020
Clever response to entitled friends. 😎
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When in Rome, pay as the Romans? Unreasonable demands! 😒
Alfred_LeBlanc | Alfred_LeBlanc
Breaking tradition can be okay, focus on what matters ❤️
NotSoAverage_sister | NotSoAverage_sister
NTA stands firm against entitled in-laws' demands 💪
blueboy754 | blueboy754
Breaking cultural norms shouldn't derail your future. 👍
Chokingontheashes | Chokingontheashes
NTA stands firmly against entitled wedding guests 💰
starlie086 | starlie086
Entitlement, not culture, drives wedding expenses, NTA comment.
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Wedding guests should pay for their own travel expenses. 💸
randomnurse | randomnurse
Stand your ground and say no to entitled friends. 💪
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Suggests arranging lower priced rooms & gift bags for guests 👍
Stella430 | Stella430
Savage response to entitled friends demanding couple pay for travel
Effective_Passenger8 | Effective_Passenger8
Flying 20 people to wedding in Europe is expensive. NTA.
mia_scheherazade | mia_scheherazade
Be honest about financial limitations and prioritize your own planning 💰
DocSternau | DocSternau
Wedding guests should pay for themselves. NTA for bride.
Choccy24601 | Choccy24601
Attended a lavish destination wedding; paid for own travel expenses. 👏
ArchieMedoggie | ArchieMedoggie
Culture clash! Commenter's experience with weddings clashes with friends' demands. 😱
babsibu | babsibu
Culture clash: bride refuses to pay for friends' travel expenses. NTA.
ThunderSparkles | ThunderSparkles
Wedding guests demand travel costs. Commenter says NTA.
Darth_Lacey | Darth_Lacey
Setting up a zoom wedding could be the perfect solution!
Tempi3 | Tempi3
Navigating cultural differences and wedding expenses can be tricky 😔
2ndcupofcoffee | 2ndcupofcoffee
Consider a second reception in their country. NTA, cultural differences.
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Friends demand bride pay for travel: NTA stands firm 💰
Multifanfandomgirl | Multifanfandomgirl
Fly friends out: cultural norm or entitled demand? 🤔
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NTA for wanting a small family-only wedding due to COVID 🤩
MizWhatsit | MizWhatsit
Pay for guests or don't expect them to come. NTA 👍
WimpyUnicorn | WimpyUnicorn
Sensible advice to not spend house money on flights 👍
kittycatnala | kittycatnala
Respecting traditions should not come at the expense of others.✨
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Wedding guests demand travel expenses? NTA, get new friends 😱
topbananatropicana | topbananatropicana
Stand united against stingy rich family demanding wedding travel expenses. 💍
Th4tRedditorII | Th4tRedditorII
Fair point on paying for guests' travel, it's a slippery slope 🤔
Effective_Passenger8 | Effective_Passenger8
Culture cannot be used to justify unreasonable demands. 🙄
maenad2 | maenad2
