Dad-To-Be REFUSES to Name Son After Fiancée's Friend Who Died of an Overdose 😱💉

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🍼 Naming a baby is always a big decision, but for this expecting couple, it's turned into a major drama! 😱 The fiancée wants to honor her late friend Bob by naming their son after him, but OP has some serious reservations. 😬 Buckle up, because this story is about to take a wild turn! 🎢 Get ready for a tale of tragedy, heroin, and a whole lot of awkwardness. 😳 Can this couple find a compromise, or will the ghost of Bob haunt their baby naming forever? 👻 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊‍♂️

🤰 Baby on the Way, but What to Name Him? 🍼

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🙏 Fiancée's Heart Set on Honoring Late Friend 💔

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😬 Plot Twist: OP Knew Bob... and Didn't Like Him 😒

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🤔 Maybe Bob Changed? 🤷‍♂️

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💉 The Tragic Truth About Bob's Demise 😢

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🙅‍♂️ OP Puts His Foot Down: No Naming After Heroin Overdose 🚫

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😡 Fiancée Furious, Thinks OP is an A-hole 😤

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🤷‍♂️ OP Stands His Ground, Thinks Request is Rational 🧐

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😬 Awkward Conversation Alert: Explaining Bob's Fate to Their Son 😳

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🙄 OP Exasperated: "Like, Come On!" 🤦‍♂️

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🤝 OP's Compromise: Honor Someone Else on Fiancée's Side 🙌

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❓ The Burning Question: Why Bob? 🤨

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🤰 Baby Name Battle: Honoring a Heroin Overdose Victim? 💉😳

Well, well, well... looks like this couple's baby naming journey has hit a major roadblock! 🚧 The fiancée wants to honor her late friend Bob, but OP remembers him as a not-so-likable guy who tragically died of a heroin overdose. 😢 Yikes! 😬 OP's not thrilled about explaining that to their future son. 🙊 The fiancée's furious, thinking OP's being a total a-hole, but OP stands his ground. 🙅‍♂️ He suggests honoring someone else on her side of the family instead. 🤝 But the question remains: why is the fiancée so dead set on Bob? 🤔 The internet has some thoughts on this baby name battle... 💭

Naming children after disliked people: NTA or ESH? 🤔

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Agreeing on a name together is important for both parents. 👍

VixNeko | VixNeko

Naming a child should be a mutual decision 👨‍👧‍👦, NTA.

RTJ333 | RTJ333

NAH for not wanting to name child after friend, YTA for weaponizing addiction and mocking the deceased.

Jolly_Tooth_7274 | Jolly_Tooth_7274

While NTA for refusing the name, consider a more empathetic approach 😔

floralanthracite | floralanthracite

User defends NTA stance but calls out insensitive language.

drugs4therapy | drugs4therapy

Respect individuality: Baby's name shouldn't be a memorial. NTA.

PattersonsOlady | PattersonsOlady

Choosing a name can be tough, but it should be a two-person decision. 💑

MerelyWhelmed1 | MerelyWhelmed1

Naming a child after someone who died of overdose? NTA.

Minute-Judge-5821 | Minute-Judge-5821

NTA. Discuss other ways to memorialize Bob with your wife 💛

swissmissmaybe | swissmissmaybe

Why was Bob a prick? Have you told your fiancé?

hello_2221 | hello_2221

Respectful disagreement over baby name, but fiancee is TA 😠

MadoogsL | MadoogsL

SCOTUS as an insult? This thread has it all! 😂

SlightlyVicious101 | SlightlyVicious101

Asking for the reasoning behind honoring Bob, while acknowledging addiction as a disease. 🤔💭

Great_Baker_ | Great_Baker_

Vetoing name - NTA, but lacking empathy for overdose victims - YTA 🤭

roadsidechicory | roadsidechicory

Agreeing with the poster's reasonable request to not use a controversial name.

Paevatar | Paevatar

NTA for wanting a say in son's name but insensitive towards overdose victim 😔

Such-Cranberry-4479 | Such-Cranberry-4479

Naming son after deceased friend becomes a point of contention.

SolitaryMarmot | SolitaryMarmot

Insensitive comment and pushy wife cause conflict over baby name

SamuAzura | SamuAzura

Compromise suggested for naming baby after fiancée's friend. NTA.

Murderhornet212 | Murderhornet212

Curiosity about the motive behind the name sparks suspicion 🤔

d4nkgr1l | d4nkgr1l

Naming your kid Bob isn't the issue here 🙄

SkeeveTheGreat | SkeeveTheGreat

User calls out commenter for mocking addiction and deceased friend 🔥

sesamesoda | sesamesoda

Naming a child requires mutual agreement. Let's avoid stigmatizing addiction.

LenoreEvermore | LenoreEvermore

Respectful disagreement with a disappointing attitude towards addiction 🤔

bskbm | bskbm

Disrespecting deceased fiancee's friend makes you TA, not NTA. 🙄

ginsengtea3 | ginsengtea3

Red flag for fiancee: Dad-to-be's lack of compassion for friend's overdose 🚨

Ohcrumbcakes | Ohcrumbcakes

Naming a child after a deceased drug addict? NTA wins.

No-Cost-2668 | No-Cost-2668

Compromise suggested, bonus points for clever insult 👍

vociferousgirl | vociferousgirl

"Bob" as a middle name compromise suggestion 🤔👍

LeSagouin | LeSagouin

Compromise suggestion for baby name dispute. NTA. 👍

bokatan778 | bokatan778

Naming after someone who died of an overdose? Personal choice. 💭

Sorry-Independent-98 | Sorry-Independent-98

Compromise needed as dad-to-be refuses to name son after fiancée's friend who died of overdose. NTA.

MilkCartonDandruff | MilkCartonDandruff

NTA on name dispute, but commenter's attitude is criticized 🤨

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Choosing a baby name: vetoing names you can't stand. 💔

ImpossibleBlanket | ImpossibleBlanket

Compromise on a different name with same initial 🙂

DgShwgrl | DgShwgrl

Naming a child after a deceased loved one is personal ❤️

koryisma | koryisma

Honoring a deceased friend with a middle name🙌. Good compromise suggestion. NTA.

the_alexinator | the_alexinator

Agreeing on baby names is important practice for co-parenting. NTA 👍

Ok-Wrangler-8175 | Ok-Wrangler-8175

Naming a child after a deceased friend - YTA or NAH?

hiikarinnn | hiikarinnn

Vetoing a name? Not the a-hole. Shaming addiction? YTA.

severalcouches | severalcouches

ESH for not compromising on the name, but a middle name like 'Paul Bob' could be a solution. 💡

McMerseybird | McMerseybird

Naming baby after friend who OD'd? NTA says commenter.

Bakecrazy | Bakecrazy

Naming children after someone they never knew or met?

mak-ina-myn | mak-ina-myn

Suggests using a variation of the name. Not the a-hole.

Ok_Arrival7478 | Ok_Arrival7478

Naming a child is a two-yes, one-no proposition. NTA.

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Naming a child should be a mutual decision. NTA.

Dangi86 | Dangi86

Respectful communication is key. NAH, stand your ground 👍

socialjusticecleric7 | socialjusticecleric7

Naming a child after a deceased person can be burdensome 😱

hmterry17 | hmterry17

Expectant mother advises to stick up for yourself when naming children 👨🏻‍👩🏻

classy-chaos | classy-chaos

Naming baby is both parents' decision, NTA according to former addict

MrsVentura83 | MrsVentura83

Naming baby after deceased friend is a sensitive topic. NTA.

werewolvesroam | werewolvesroam

Suggests a compromise to honor friend without pressuring the child 👍

partofbreakfast | partofbreakfast

Baby naming contracts should be mandatory! NTA.

DankyMcJangles | DankyMcJangles

Parental naming rights should be respected. NTA for vetoing.

wittythiswaycomes | wittythiswaycomes

Unlimited veto power leads to the possibility of quirky names 😂

The-Nevil-Clavain | The-Nevil-Clavain

A collaborative effort, or a one-man show? 🤔

Environmental_Art859 | Environmental_Art859

Vetoing the name? NTA. Suggestion: Use as middle name instead 🤔

Virtual_Draw5017 | Virtual_Draw5017

Naming a child after someone is not necessary for identity 🤔

BananaSignificant771 | BananaSignificant771

Naming child after deceased person can carry negative connotations. NTA.

linyx-- | linyx--

Naming child after deceased prick who OD'd? NTA for refusing.

KarenMaca | KarenMaca

Veto power for names? NTA for not liking it.

Kreativecolors | Kreativecolors

Compromise suggestion: middle name as tribute. NTA judgement.

tcrhs | tcrhs

Parents get veto power but OP's attitude towards addiction is unacceptable 🔫

AtlantaBing | AtlantaBing

NTA for not wanting to name a kid after someone disliked 👍

Rooney_Tuesday | Rooney_Tuesday

Both parents have an equal say in naming the child 👨🏻‍🍳 and a compromise may work 👍

Blue_eyed_fox_94 | Blue_eyed_fox_94

Gender doesn't matter, NTA for standing your ground 👏

FutureDiaryAyano | FutureDiaryAyano

Naming a child after a deceased person: YTA or NTA?

mzpljc | mzpljc

Insensitive comment about addiction and naming child after deceased friend.

Flat_Worldliness3430 | Flat_Worldliness3430

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