🎓💕 Buckle up, folks! We've got a tale of love, loss, and intellectual incompatibility that'll have you questioning everything you thought you knew about relationships. Meet our brilliant protagonist, a 25-year-old woman who grew up in a strict Asian household where academics reigned supreme. 📚 But when she met her fun-loving, extroverted ex, it was like stepping into a whole new world. 🌍 Little did she know, their whirlwind romance would lead to a surprise engagement and a shocking breakup that left her wondering: AITAH? 🤔
Ivy League Grad Breaks Up with 'Dumb' Fiancé - His Revenge Is UNBELIEVABLE! 😲
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🎓 Strict Asian Upbringing: A Life of Academics 📚
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🎹 Piano and Fencing: The Only Allowed Activities 🤺
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🌍 Opposites Attract: Exploring a New World Together 🧭
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🍽️ Adventures Galore: Food, Places, and Activities 🌄
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💍 Surprise Engagement: Saying Yes in the Heat of the Moment 🎉
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💭 Second Thoughts: Imagining Life Together 🤔
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💼 Work Woes: Disinterest and Misunderstandings 😞
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📚 Intellectual Incompatibility: Craving Meaningful Conversations 🗣️
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💔 Breaking Up: A Peaceful Parting... Or So She Thought 😳
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😡 Trashed Place and Accusations: The Aftermath of the Breakup 🗑️
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🤷♀️ AITAH: Seeking Judgment from the Internet Jury 👨⚖️
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🎭 Love, Loss, and Intellectual Incompatibility: A Modern-Day Romance Gone Wrong 💔
Our protagonist's journey from a strict academic upbringing to a whirlwind romance with her polar opposite is a story that'll have you hooked from start to finish. 📖 But as the cracks in their relationship began to show, she realized that their intellectual incompatibility was too much to bear. 😞 The breakup seemed peaceful at first, but the aftermath was anything but. 😳 Now, she's turning to the internet for judgment: was she an a-hole for leaving her fiance because she thought he was dumb? 🤔 Let's see what the online jury has to say about this modern-day romance gone wrong! 👨⚖️
Breaking up amicably: NTA for wanting common interests in partner. 👍
Rohkea1 | Rohkea1
Dodged a bullet with a violent fiancé. NTA 👏
OfAnOldRepublic | OfAnOldRepublic
Dodged a bullet! NTA. Consider pressing charges for trashing.
annebonnell | annebonnell
Breaking up with a moron: NTA's satisfying revenge 🙌
BorisDirk | BorisDirk
Dodged a bullet with a fun but immature ex-fiancé. File a police report and get a restraining order. 💪
she_who_knits | she_who_knits
NTA but could've handled the breakup better. Communication is key 💬
AmphibianFantastic53 | AmphibianFantastic53
Don't settle for a beautiful idiot in a long-term relationship. 😉
QueenScarebear | QueenScarebear
Proposed without discussion? NTA for breaking up.
deathtoallants | deathtoallants
NTA, incompatible and insensitive proposal. He proved his dumbness 🤦♀️
RevengencerAlf | RevengencerAlf
NTA for breaking up with a violent fiancé who couldn't hold a conversation 🤔
Fun_Comparison4973 | Fun_Comparison4973
NTA for breaking up, but learn humility and don't be a snob 🤓
MurderClanMan | MurderClanMan
Stay strong and move on, don't look back! 👍
rightbutbanned | rightbutbanned
Don't settle for less, find someone on your intellectual level. 👊
SapphireFarmer | SapphireFarmer
Staying in a relationship for intellectual stimulation? 😳 NTA
VeganCaramellCoffee | VeganCaramellCoffee
Ex-fiancé vandalizes place, dodged a bullet. Change locks ASAP! 🚨
BeachinLife1 | BeachinLife1
A reminder that it's okay to end unhappy relationships. 👍
Music_withRocks_In | Music_withRocks_In
Engagement surprise gone wrong. Communication is key 🤷♂️
keifluff | keifluff
Breaking up because of lack of interest, NTA 👍
Moon_Ray_77 | Moon_Ray_77
Breaking up because of lack of partnership and understanding. 👍
fleurdubien971 | fleurdubien971
Breaking up with an ignorant fiancé, NTA 4000%. 🙅♀️👋
tenpen65 | tenpen65
Married to 'dumb' for 3 years 😬 Mutual separation.
O_Ammi_G | O_Ammi_G
Seeking a partner who matches intellectual curiosity and kindness 🙌
Professional_Ad_7674 | Professional_Ad_7674
When it comes to dating, intelligence is a dealbreaker 😬
TigerXtrm2 | TigerXtrm2
Public proposal was a red flag, but his revenge was unforgivable 😠
natteringly | natteringly
Intelligence matters in relationships: NTA comment sparks agreement.
DaCriLLSwE | DaCriLLSwE
Dumped fiancé seeks revenge by trashing the place. NTA.
big_bob_c | big_bob_c
NTA, but hope you reached out to *their* parents 😊
Kittytigris | Kittytigris
Dumped fiance trashes ex-girlfriend's place, she made the right choice. 👍
CocoaAlmondsRock | CocoaAlmondsRock
Dodged a bullet! NTA for breaking up with violent ex 💯
mollydotdot | mollydotdot
Thoughtful comment about values and childhood in relationship advice.
wpnsc | wpnsc
Legitimate reason to break up, but trashing her place is scary 😱
cmuratt | cmuratt
NTA suggests reporting ex-fiancé and friends to police for illegal act 🚨
Spirited_Complex_903 | Spirited_Complex_903
Supportive comment offers legal advice after ex-fiance damages property 💪
Primary_Ad_4260 | Primary_Ad_4260
Breaking up over intelligence differences makes her NTA, but looking down on him is AH 🤯
Stage_Party | Stage_Party
Breaking up because of intelligence mismatch: NTA wins!
HomeschoolingDad | HomeschoolingDad
Dumping a dumb fiancé who trashed your place? NTA, obviously 😊
Acceptable-Map-3490 | Acceptable-Map-3490
Wishing the best for a successful woman. 🙏
Station51 | Station51
Breaking up was the right choice. Time to move on. 👋
SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839
Degree-holding woman breaks up, ex trashes house, NTA obviously 😱
delinaX | delinaX
Fiancé trashes house after break up? Lucky escape, scary situation. 😱
HighRiseCat | HighRiseCat
Learning to appreciate differences and grow in a relationship. 💖
Accomplished-Past508 | Accomplished-Past508
Love is more than just intelligence 💖
Naillian603 | Naillian603
Don't settle for dumb children! NTA for breaking up.
boringbobby | boringbobby
Ex-fiancé trashes her place after being called dumb 🤯
nyanvi | nyanvi
Dodged a bullet with a tantrum-throwing toddler 😂
Many-Talk8511 | Many-Talk8511
Breaking off a relationship without respect is a major red flag 👀
uncertainnewb | uncertainnewb
Dumped fiancé trashes ex's place - advice to call police 🚨
kujahlegend | kujahlegend
Bullet dodged! 💣 Move on, you deserve better. 👍
GChambers46038 | GChambers46038
Debating the value of fencing in college applications 🤔
One_Conversation8009 | One_Conversation8009
Find a partner with shared values and strengths, NTA! 👏
roadkill4snacks | roadkill4snacks
Realizing differences before marriage, no a**hole here 🙂
honeybee1909 | honeybee1909
Moving on from a failed engagement with grace 👏
ThyNaughtyJesus | ThyNaughtyJesus
Opposites attract, and differences make us better. NTA.
No_Mistake_5961 | No_Mistake_5961
Breaking up is okay, but did you try to learn? 🤔
lordcommander55 | lordcommander55
NTA calls out ex-fiance for being a narcissistic goofball 😳
Ok-Bee-Bee | Ok-Bee-Bee
Hookup vs lifelong partner confusion and NTA for breaking up
kenny133773 | kenny133773
NTA, appreciate who he is, he needs to get a grip 😒
mayfeelthis | mayfeelthis
Fun turned into a mess! Proposal needs conversations. NTA. 😊
SirRevolutionary1299 | SirRevolutionary1299
Choosing to be with someone 'dumb' doesn't make you TA 🙏, but his revenge is unforgivable 😱
TheMisanthropicGuy | TheMisanthropicGuy
Partner material? Nah. Intellectually uncurious? Definitely. NTA.
IanDOsmond | IanDOsmond
Don't be the a**hole by dating men like him again.
StockCasinoMember | StockCasinoMember
Breaking up for lack of intellectual connection, not dumbness. Valid. 😂
Action-a-go-go-baby | Action-a-go-go-baby
Public proposals are trashy and his reaction was a**hole-ish 🤷♀️
alactusman | alactusman
Breaking up was tough, but necessary. Support is important 👍
creakyoldlady | creakyoldlady
Outrage over ex's destructive behavior, mental health concerns raised.
fiveohthreebee | fiveohthreebee
Is excluding family from an engagement party a red flag? 🤔
Dogmom0519 | Dogmom0519
Dump the dumb, find someone intelligent and fun! 👍
geepy66 | geepy66
Loopholes and greed drive gas prices, not geopolitical conflicts. 💪
Ezodan | Ezodan
Dump your dumb fiancé before it's too late. NTA 🙄
TheGreenInYourBlunt | TheGreenInYourBlunt
Dodged a bullet with a mean-spirited, infantile ex-fiancé. NTA 💯
blackcain | blackcain
"NTA" commenter defends OP's breakup with insensitive fiancé 👏
prove____it | prove____it
NTA and finding a Ukraine-knowing partner? Easy peasy 😎
Just_a_Word_RS | Just_a_Word_RS
Engaging with partner who belittles your expertise? NTA 👏
Dismal-Ad160 | Dismal-Ad160
Ex-fiancé trashes her place, NTA dodged a bullet. 💯
MadSpaceYT | MadSpaceYT
Fiancé invites only friends to engagement, trashes house. #NTA
Onanadventure_14 | Onanadventure_14