🌍 Get ready for a wild ride across continents and generations! 🌎 Our story begins with a fateful visit to South America, where our protagonist meets his cousin's struggling family. 👨👩👧👦 Moved by their plight, he and his wife make a life-changing offer. 💍 But as the saying goes, no good deed goes unpunished! 😱 Buckle up as we navigate through family drama, tough decisions, and the age-old question: Am I the A-hole? 🤔
He Offered to Adopt His Cousin's Baby - But 13 Years Later, Everything Changed 💔
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🌎 A Fateful Visit to South America
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💰 An Offer of Help
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😔 Feeling Guilty
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😱 Family Feud: No Good Deed Goes Unpunished! 💥
Well, well, well... looks like our protagonist's attempt at playing the hero has backfired spectacularly! 😅 After declining to adopt his cousin's troubled teen, the family is now sh*tting on him for going back on his word. 💩 Talk about a sticky situation! 😬 But wait, there's more! Our guy even offered to foot the bill if someone else took the kid in, but apparently, that's not good enough for this ungrateful bunch. 🙄 So, what does the internet have to say about this family feud? 🤔 Let's dive into the juicy details and see who comes out on top! 🍿
NTA offered to adopt cousin's baby, now they want help? 😑
Ok-Climate553 | Ok-Climate553
Generous offer rejected, NTA. Paying expenses is more than enough 👍
JudgeJudAITA | JudgeJudAITA
Offering to adopt a baby 13 years ago doesn't obligate you now 😕
alv269 | alv269
Adopting a teen is different, offer doesn't last 13 years. NTA. 👍
Aggressive_Cup8452 | Aggressive_Cup8452
A controversial take on the situation with AHs all around 😬
prairiemountainzen | prairiemountainzen
Clear NTA judgement with a hint of sarcasm 😎
CivilAsAnOrang | CivilAsAnOrang
Generous adoption offer rejected. Move on. You owe nothing. 💪
Dontbither | Dontbither
Declining to adopt doesn't mean accepting financial responsibility 🙅
Runs13point1s | Runs13point1s
Uncle offered to house me, should the offer still stand? NTA 👍
unknown_928121 | unknown_928121
Compassionate offer met with apathy and excuses. NTA 😠
dwells2301 | dwells2301
NTA. You offered to adopt, they declined. Now they can't demand.
Kcollar59 | Kcollar59
Family rejects adoption offer, 13 years later expect help. A**holes.
Content-Plenty-268 | Content-Plenty-268
Job opportunity declined, proposal declined. NTA 👍
Material-Profit5923 | Material-Profit5923
Logical NTA shuts down complainers with a truth bomb 🤯
[deleted] | [deleted]
Clear-cut NTA argument with a touch of sass 👏
FaultRealistic9344 | FaultRealistic9344
Generous offer declined once, now they want it? NTA 👏
Gothicc_Witchxo | Gothicc_Witchxo
NTA. Don't fall for their sudden change of heart. 🧡
Ground-Rat | Ground-Rat
13 years later, NTA reminded that the offer was refused.
ButcherBird57 | ButcherBird57
NTA defends against wrongful accusations and criticizes cousin's actions 🤢
Irondaddy_29 | Irondaddy_29
Teenager isn't a puppy to be given away. 👍
Constellation-88 | Constellation-88
NTA. You made an offer, she refused. Family are AH 👎
Gray_Twilight | Gray_Twilight
Generous offer declined, now they want you to uproot teenager? NTA 👏
diente_de_leon | diente_de_leon
Declined adoption offer doesn't make OP a**hole. Bullying tactics exposed 👊
Okhottie | Okhottie
Off-topic comment with a touch of humor 😂
SpruceGoose133 | SpruceGoose133
Declined adoption offer, offered financial support. NTA 👍
Quirky-Art4438 | Quirky-Art4438
Stealing and saving kids at the same time? NTA wins.
blearghstopthispls | blearghstopthispls
Kind offer declined twice. Stop offering help, you're NTA 😊
No_Pepper_3676 | No_Pepper_3676
NTA stands their ground against entitled family members 👊
Crimson_queen911 | Crimson_queen911
Polite offer refused, NTA for taking it off the table 😊
DoIwantToKnow6417 | DoIwantToKnow6417
Man defends not adopting difficult 13-year-old cousin after being turned down 13 years ago. 💁♂️
thatattyguy | thatattyguy
Rejected adoption offer, but now want help? NTA. 👍
LiffeyDodge | LiffeyDodge
Offering financial support to a family is not the same as adopting a troubled 13-year-old. NTA 👍
Seriouslydude-no-way | Seriouslydude-no-way
Protecting yourself from false accusations 🚫💰
Tanagrabelle | Tanagrabelle
NTA shuts down unrealistic 13-year-old offer 💪
somethingmichael | somethingmichael
NTA saves the day, but family drama never ends 👍
Character-Tennis-241 | Character-Tennis-241
User criticizes large families, calls out lack of responsibility. NTA.
Remarkable_Job_5355 | Remarkable_Job_5355
Offer declined, now wants you to adopt her troublemaker? NTA 👏
Emotional_Bonus_934 | Emotional_Bonus_934
Offered to adopt cousin's baby, now called bad guy 13 yrs later 🤷♂️
Shot_Boysenberry_232 | Shot_Boysenberry_232
Standing up for yourself against absurd accusations. 😎 #NTA
cloverthewonderkitty | cloverthewonderkitty
Accused of wrongdoing, NTA uncle now sees consequences. 👍
CreedTheDawg | CreedTheDawg
Culture and relationship context. NTA's generous offer and reasoning explained 👍
Jujulabee | Jujulabee
NTA stands firm on adoption offer, family drama ensues 🤷♂️
elsie78 | elsie78
They declined your offer 13 years ago, don't let guilt-trip work 👍
AwkwardFoodie978 | AwkwardFoodie978
Generous offer to adopt declined, family should support him locally 👍
Shells613 | Shells613
NTA rescinds offer to adopt cousin's troubled 13yo. Drama ensues. 💔
turriferous | turriferous
Offer to adopt declined and met with scorn. NTA.
External-Hamster-991 | External-Hamster-991
NTA. The cousin is just trying to offload a problem child onto a distant relative they see as a sucker, and won't accept financial help to take him in themselves. 🤷♂️
bjorkenstocks | bjorkenstocks
NTA. You can't take back your choices because of regret. 👍
EnergyThat1518 | EnergyThat1518
Rejected adoption offer, now he's a problem, not your problem 👍
Consistent_Walrus_40 | Consistent_Walrus_40
Don't let her bad decisions become your problem. 👍
Revolutionary_Date47 | Revolutionary_Date47
NTA offers to adopt a baby out of good intentions but now family wants a do-over on a 13-year-old problem child. NTA stands firm. 👍
Grandma_Kaos | Grandma_Kaos
Granddaughter's behavior towards their daughter caused them to send her back. NTA 👍
Formal_Leopard_462 | Formal_Leopard_462
NTA, forget the haters and enjoy your life 👍
Clear-Firefighter877 | Clear-Firefighter877
50 is still young, energy isn't the only factor. NTA 👍
shez19833 | shez19833
User compares adopting baby to buying kitten; sparks debate 😱
garbagedisposaly | garbagedisposaly
Rejected adoption offer 13 years ago, NTA for withdrawing now 👏
totallynotarobut | totallynotarobut
Declined adoption offer, NTA. 13yo at 50 is tough 👍
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13 years later, adoption offer not valid. NTA.
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13 years is a long time, NTA. Don't feel bad.
whoops53 | whoops53
Dodged a bullet 💥 NTA for avoiding their headache.
dodiekr | dodiekr
Defending the OP's actions against heartless family members 👊
Honey_loves_bear | Honey_loves_bear
NTA offers to adopt cousin's baby, now being blamed for not taking care of the child. 🤨
Apprehensive_Size484 | Apprehensive_Size484
Offered to adopt but rejected, still not the a**hole. 🤷♀️
Ordinary_Mortgage870 | Ordinary_Mortgage870
Is it okay to offer to adopt a kid out of the blue? 🤔
Queen_Sized_Beauty | Queen_Sized_Beauty
Offering to adopt without social services oversight is human trafficking 😡
FatimaAbdi8 | FatimaAbdi8
