Adopted Son Makes 💔 Choice - Is He Wrong to Cut Off Birth Mom? 🤔

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🔥 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy family drama on our hands. 🍿 Meet our protagonist, a loving adoptive mom caught in the middle of a sticky situation. Her son, adopted from her husband's sister, is grappling with the complexities of his relationship with his biological mom. As Mother's Day rolls around, tensions rise and emotions run high. 😱 Is our hero an a-hole for not pushing her son to maintain a relationship he doesn't want? Let's dive in and find out! 👀

🚨 Family Drama Alert! 🚨

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👮‍♀️ Auntie Goes to the Slammer 😱

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🎂 The Big 1-8 Decision 🤔

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🙌 Mama's Makin' Moves! 🎉

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📞 Ghosted by Bio-Mom 👻

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🌷 Mother's Day Mayhem 🌷

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🤗 Surprise Hug Attack! 🤗

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📱 The Dreaded Text 😬

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🙅‍♂️ Son Says No to Bio-Mom 🙅‍♂️

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😠 Hubby's Heated 🔥

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🎭 The Mother's Day Dilemma: To Push or Not to Push? 🤔

Our protagonist finds herself in a tricky spot this Mother's Day. 🌷 Her adopted son, who's had a rocky relationship with his bio mom, surprises her with a heartfelt hug and greeting. 🤗 Meanwhile, bio mom reaches out via text, asking for a call from the son. 📱 When asked if he wished her a happy Mother's Day, the son simply says "no." 🙅‍♂️ Hubby's upset that our hero didn't encourage the son to reach out, but she believes it's not her place to force a relationship he doesn't want. 😕 The internet is about to weigh in on this emotional rollercoaster. Will our protagonist be dubbed an a-hole or a saint? 😇 Let's see what the masses have to say! 🗣️

Birth mom disappears then expects Mother's Day congrats? NTA.

nan1ta | nan1ta

Bio mom must earn relationship. Adopted son has right to choose.

grumpyspudgal | grumpyspudgal

Adopted son's choice to cut off birth mom is justified 👍

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Family isn't always blood 💔 Agree with NTA's decision.

jackilda | jackilda

Bio mom had chances, son's choice. NTA, you're great mom 👍

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Let him make his own choice. NTA 👍

dmd9715 | dmd9715

Birth mother's actions don't make her a mother. NTA 👍

Thamwoofgu | Thamwoofgu

Supportive comment defends adopted son's decision to cut off birth mom ✊

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Bio mom doesn't equal mother. NTA, he made his choice. 👍

WhyNotZoidbrony | WhyNotZoidbrony

Don't let sexist expectations guilt you, you're NTA! 👏

andonebelow | andonebelow

Biological mom not entitled to relationship with adopted son. NTA 👏

laserox | laserox

Respect his decision, he's not responsible for his biomom. 👍

pavel_lishin | pavel_lishin

Let him be happy and content with his choices 🙌

Kittytigris | Kittytigris

Adopted son's decision to cut off birth mom supported. 💪

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Adopted son feels conflicted about bio mom, NTA 🤔

Suedeltica | Suedeltica

Adopted son chooses supportive mother figure over absent birth mom 💔

Master-Manipulation | Master-Manipulation

NTA. His bio mom was an incubator, at best 💔

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Family ties don't obligate him. Respect his decision. 👍

PartyPorpoise | PartyPorpoise

User argues birth mother doesn't deserve to be celebrated on Mother's Day 🤔

happynargul | happynargul

NTA. Birth mom should have put in the effort herself 👍

Sfb208 | Sfb208

NTA! Stepping up to be a mom to a child without consistent support from their biological mother deserves recognition. You and your husband should be proud of yourselves. 👏

jhyleem | jhyleem

Birth mom should apologize, adopted son not wrong to cut off 👍

ultradip | ultradip

Heartwarming comment about adopted son choosing his true family 💔

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Supportive comment - Let your son make his own choices 👍

lol1015 | lol1015

Protecting adopted son's wishes, a difficult choice for the mother 😔

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Adopted son sees her as mom, NTA for cutting off birth mom.

LiffeyDodge | LiffeyDodge

Motherhood is more than genetics. NTA for cutting ties. 👏

Dehibernate | Dehibernate

Adoptive parent supports adopted son cutting off toxic birth mom. 👍

Chickens1 | Chickens1

Respect for personal boundaries is key to healthy relationships. 👍

2catsaretheminimum | 2catsaretheminimum

Adopted son's choice respected, bio mom not his 'mother' ❤️

EHGA2020 | EHGA2020

NTA chooses to cut off birth mom. Family drama ensues 👀

atee55 | atee55

Cutting off birth mom - NTA and a narcissist.

thephloxisjinxed | thephloxisjinxed

Supporting adopted son's decision on birth mom relationship. 🙌

Whiteroses7252012 | Whiteroses7252012

Birth mom lost her chance, husband can't be mad. NTA 👏

SqueaksScreech | SqueaksScreech

NTA. Good on you for having his back. 👍

GroovyYaYa | GroovyYaYa

Adopted son chooses chosen family over birth mother. NTA.

StylishMrTrix | StylishMrTrix

Breaking free from abusive birth parents is justified. NTA! 🙌

glasswitch88 | glasswitch88

Adopted son's choice respected; blood not always thicker than water. 👍

CamileSS | CamileSS

Heartwarming support for adoptive mother. 💕

Somebodycalled911 | Somebodycalled911

Supporting adopted son's decision to cut off birth mom. 👍

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Adopted son chooses to cut off birth mom. Commenter agrees.

still_a_weeb_dweeb | still_a_weeb_dweeb

Heartwarming reply celebrates adoptive mother on Mother's Day ❤️

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Being a mother is more than just giving birth 💔❤️

weirddevil | weirddevil

Let him make his own choice, NTA 👍

wpkn | wpkn

NTA adopts son, cuts off birth mom. Biology be damned. 👏

9300fathoms | 9300fathoms

Husband has a point but it's son's choice. Be supportive 👍

Bored_and_Reading | Bored_and_Reading

18yo adopted son chooses to cut off bio mom. NTA.

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Respecting adopted son's decision to cut off birth mom. #NTA 👏

maybeitwasfoxy | maybeitwasfoxy

Don't force it, it's his choice. NTA 👍

pickelrick_ | pickelrick_

Bio mom's loss. Adopted son free to make his choices 👏

harmie10001 | harmie10001

Setting boundaries with birth mom. NTA handled it well.

ThreeRingShitshow | ThreeRingShitshow

Adopted son chooses to cut off birth mom, gets support

gamerdarling | gamerdarling

Adopted son's choice to cut off birth mom is justified 👍

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NTA. Biological mom not entitled to Mother's Day celebration. 👏

I4getstuff | I4getstuff

Family pressures adopted son to talk to birth mom. 🤔

TheMocking-Bird | TheMocking-Bird

Support for adopted son cutting off negligent birth mom. 👏

keepcalmandhydrate | keepcalmandhydrate

Cutting off abusive parent is NTA, forced greeting abusive too. 👍

VividFiddlesticks | VividFiddlesticks

Husband's deadbeat sister versus adopted son's emotions 💔

seba_make | seba_make

Being a parent is all or nothing. NTA for cutting off.

Je0ff_ | Je0ff_

Adopted son not wrong for cutting off bio mom. 👍

mathhews95 | mathhews95

Husband overreacts as son decides to cut off birth mom 🤔

pgp555 | pgp555

Respectful son chooses adoptive mom over birth mom. NTA 🙌

forestotterqueen | forestotterqueen

Husband's being unreasonable. Son made his choice. NTA 👍

casakonamicode | casakonamicode

Biological mom had her chance, NTA for cutting her off 👍

Glasgowghirl67 | Glasgowghirl67

Proud mom defends adopted son's decision to cut off birth mom 💔

smegheadgirl | smegheadgirl

Let him choose his relationships. Pushing can cause misery. 👍

KelsoTheVagrant | KelsoTheVagrant

Choosing not to push therapy for now - understandable decision. 🙏

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NTA! Son's choice to cut off birth mom respected. 🙌

notsamsmum | notsamsmum

Adopted son chooses to cut off birth mom. NTA explains why.

caddykitten | caddykitten

Respect the adopted son's choice and feelings. NTA 👏

Megaman1549 | Megaman1549

NTA. He wished his mom a Happy Mother's Day. SIL needs to act like a mother if she wants to be treated like one. 🤔

mutherofdoggos | mutherofdoggos

Adopted son remembers Mother's Day, but is it wrong to cut off birth mom? 💔

ceridwen04 | ceridwen04

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