The first time I realized how much makeup changed me, I was at a pharmacy.
I decided to go without makeup to pick up a prescription — I'd be heading right back home again, and I didn't have a spare hour to do my regular beat. When I got there, my pharmacist looked and my bare face and asked, "Are you ill?"
Yup. And unfortunately, a lot of women have stories similar to mine.
"Other women approach me for conversation if I'm at the bar, I exchange casual smiles while passing someone in the aisle grocery shopping, all just typical daily scenarios with the average human being."
"I get significantly hit on more, even offered a lot of money in exchange for my 'time', and that has never happened without makeup. People offer me jobs more and try to recruit me to do marketing."
This is Ash, all done up. She's gorgeous. Unfortunately, people say that she's intimidating and actually avoid her.
"I've been stopped from going to an apartment party by the receptionist because 'working girls aren't allowed before 10PM.'"
I MEAN….WHAT?"
"Still… no one DARES to approach me unless I approach them. Still a few stares, though.
However, I'm much more peaceful. And usually no questions from anyone.
Maybe the makeup draws attention? I don't know."
"Men approach me more - even with my husband by my side. Women are generally very nice as well: They compliment my makeup and are friendly. Often times I feel as if I’m being stared at or watched," Shannon James shared.
"I am approached way less and garner next to no looks. It sounds like a negative thing but for an introvert like me, it’s so peaceful to not have to respond to random conversation."
This is exactly how I feel!
"So, I used to love wearing crazy makeup like in the first two photos, but after constant ridicule and stares I get uncomfortable even thinking about wearing my art out in public."
"When I go out wearing no makeup, those that know me ask if I’m okay, whether I’m sick or not. Guys won’t approach me. My family tells me I need to try harder, that I don’t look like I’m taking care of myself."
"When I look like this, I’m just another person. Not shunned but not really noticed either. I get no special treatment, stares, or rubbernecks," she said. "It’s really quite a peaceful but uneventful life when I am without makeup."
"People will notice me, and definitely be more friendly and accommodating. People associate attractiveness with worthiness of their attention which is depressing but true."
This is already breaking my heart.
I feel like most women do. The attention we get with makeup on can be positive or negative, sure, but at the end of the day, we're getting attention for having our faces painted. What's that about?
