Some families have tons of drama, there's no way around it. Sometimes, one person does the wrong thing, and they can't admit it. Other times, someone does the wrong thing and they're scolded by everyone around them.
And, sometimes, you need strangers on the Internet to tell you when you've completely messed up in order to face the light. We're here to tell their stories!
The Reddit user said her sister got engaged 6-months-ago and asked her to be a bridesmaid. She said she agreed because, "how could she not?" However, she ran into some issues with her sister and the bridal party, apparently, due to money.
Her 34-year-old sister and her other bridesmaids went dress shopping and they decided on a very pretty dress. However, it was $300.
She said she is a "broke college student" who couldn't afford to buy a $300 dress she would "only wear once."
"I told my sister immediately so she said she’d pay $150 and I could pay the rest myself. She sent me the money and since there were still three months before the wedding she said I had to 'salvage something,'" she wrote.
However, the Reddit user said instead of buying the dress, she "kept her sister's $150 dollars" for herself. She said she wasn't going to spend "two weeks worth of groceries" on a dress.
But, she never told her sister.
"She was pissed, saying there wasn’t enough time to order a new dress. She told me I couldn’t be a bridesmaid without it.
I didn’t show up to the wedding (for obvious reasons). She called me after, asking me where I was and calling me an a**hole and a liar," she wrote.
One user said, "Your sister gave you money for the dress, you kept it and used it on other things. Then you didn’t tell her you did that or that you changed your mind about being a bridesmaid and then just let her find out what you did a week before."
"She sent you that money for a dress. Not for you to spend, even on needs. And I am confused. Why did not go as a guest? Where you afraid she would ask for her money back? You should have said you can't even afford 150 and you are sorry you can not be in the wedding," said another on the thread.
"I don’t think I’ve ever seen a (traditional) bridesmaids dress under $100. Why would you accept if you (seemingly) never had an intent to buy the dress and be a part of the wedding in the first place.
Then on top of that stealing $150 from her and then ghosting her. I take it you don’t really like this sister in the first place?"
"You should have told your sister your issues a long time ago.
I think $$ spent on weddings is absolutely insane these days, but bailing on your sister's big day over $150 without any advance warning is a huge a**hole move," one wrote.
