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15 Men Open Up About What They Wish Other Men Would Stop Doing

When it comes to the judgment of their entire gender, women tend to be the ones who come down pretty harshly on each other.

But, there are men in the world who see things that occur within their own gender group that they wish people would stop doing constantly. Somes, there are certain activities that can spark embarrassment or even judgment from others due to frequent habits that just have to go.

Making a whole mess.

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GueroInfernal says he wishes men would stop missing the urinal and pee inside of it, instead of on the floor. No one wants to go to the bathroom and have to step in another man's pee. It's gross.

Fighting another guy over a woman.

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lolparty247 confessed that it annoys him and bothers him when men fight other men over a girl. If the girl is stringing you both along and causing a whole fight between you, it's time to let her go and move on.

Harassing women.

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kingjcpymd claims that men need to stop "harassing women who are minding their own business." The whole "catcalling" and making women uncomfortable is not endearing nor is it charming. If they say no, it means no.

Groping women and then apologizing.

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Zackmaestro said that men have to stop trying to ask for forgiveness after they "grope" his girlfriend at the nightclub. If you're groping women you don't know, it's a problem, not just because she has a boyfriend but because it's messed up.

Hiding your emotions.

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coffe_the_witch said that men have to stop holding back their emotions and finally allow themselves to cry in front of other men. Hiding everything you feel and making men ashamed of themselves is not healthy.

Wash your damn hands.

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CoMMoN-EnEmY shared that so many men take pride in being dirty and unhygienic. CoMMoN-EnEmY claims men should just wash their hands and clean themselves up so that they can ensure that they don't stink.

Handle rejection better.

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nitraw says that men really need to learn to handle rejection. When a woman says no, it doesn't mean the world is ending and it also doesn't give you the right to pop off on the girl or anyone else. No means no.

Going after taken women.

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Naofatrodaire claims that the worst part about some men is that they tend to try and go after women if they are in a relationship and oftentimes see it as a form of competition. It's not cool at all and disrespectful to the other guy completely.

Pull your weight at home.

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towerofscat says that men need to stop slacking off at home and leaving everything under the sun for their wives. The woman is not responsible for cooking, cleaning, and dealing with the kids only. You need to step up and help out more.

Sending pictures before they even ask.

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new_user29282342 said one thing men have to just stop completely is the unsolicited dick pic. Let's face it, guys oftentimes think that all women want to see a photo of their junk when in reality, we have no desire for it at all and don't want it on our phones.

No one owes you sex.

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D-C-A says men need to stop acting like going out with a woman and treating her right means that they are "owed sex." Some men demand it, if they are polite and kind to a woman, because they "deserve it." But, no one owes anyone that.

Stop dumping on girls who game.

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Real_Erik_Ondre says that she plays a lot of online games and it's really annoying that men don't respect female gamers and take it as a welcome invite to harass them and be inappropriate. Everyone's allowed to be interested in gaming, no matter their gender.

Having loud cars.

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jab_ox says having loud cars for no reason, especially those older cars that aren't even that nice. It's annoying to have to listen to it go down the street and wake up the entire neighborhood when it drives by your house at night.

Touching women "by accident."

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RadicalTzar says that men need to stop touching women and pretend that it's a mistake. Sometimes, men will casually brush past a woman and try to cop a feel or grope them, pretending that it is a mistake when in reality it is on purpose.

Belittling another guy in a group of friends.

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ARB8HHB34 says that it's wrong when guys put another guy down and belittle them when they're with a big group of friends just to seem cool and be interesting. It's not cool and also it's not interesting, it's messed up.

h/t Reddit